Brenda’s Blog
Explore Brenda’s latest thinking on leadership, coaching, and branding. Each post offers practical insights and immediately usable tools to help you succeed — both as a leader and in life.
Hilarious memory from our wedding day!
Hilarious memory from our wedding day: The limousine driver got lost on our way to the reception, so we had to do a pitstop at a Gas ‘n Shop in order to ask for help (no GPS back then!) The second photo is of me getting directions from a local. Fast forward to today, and […]
What is imposter syndrome, and how do you avoid it?
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What is the most popular leadership development topic that coaching clients want to improve?
What is the most popular leadership development topic that coaching clients want to improve? My answer: Executive Presence. It’s the special sauce that differentiates truly outstanding/inspiring leaders from good leaders. If you’re curious about your own level of Executive Presence, click on this link and take my 15-point self-assessment. Based on this, which area(s) of […]
“I never have enough time!”
“I never have enough time!” is a phrase I often hear as an Executive Coach. In a recent interview I did with Forbes contributor Caterina Kostoula, I shared a short, simple tip that helps you look at time in a new way, so that you can manage your 24-hours/day more effectively. Watch the video below, […]
Total surprise!
Total surprise! The feeling you get when you open the most recent business school alumni magazine and find a full-page photo of yourself on the inside front cover (I definitely didn’t see THAT coming…!) All kidding aside, I’m happy to be asked by Harvard Business School to be featured in an ad campaign that encourages […]
Does negative feedback really work?
When it comes to leadership, there is one topic that most people either love or hate. What is it? That ever-so-dreaded, eight-letter “f” word – feedback (~smile~). In fact, pause right now and reflect on how you feel about feedback, either giving or receiving it …. Where do you place yourself on the love-it-hate-it scale? The aspect of […]
Very excited to be holding the recently re-released Chinese versions of all three books in my Leadership Personal Branding series!
Very excited to be holding the recently re-released Chinese versions of all three books in my Leadership Personal Branding series!
What are three statements often made at work that can damage your Executive Presence?
What are three statements often made at work that can damage your Executive Presence? I was recently interviewed by Caterina Kostoula, Forbes Coaching Council, for an article in @ThriveGlobal, and I shared three damaging phrases that weaken your gravitas. How often have you caught yourself saying these words at work? https://thriveglobal.com/stories/3-phrases-that-make-you-look-more-junior-than-you-are/
The corporate world can take a cue from Broadway!
The corporate world can take a cue from Broadway! While in the U.S. last week, I saw Hamilton the musical. As expected, the lyrics, melodies, key characters, and storyline were all fantastic. But what was most impressive was the direction – how seamlessly the ensemble worked together as a whole to create an unforgettable experience […]
What legacy will YOU leave behind?
What legacy will YOU leave behind? While traveling in the U.S., I was able to attend the Board reception hosted by my undergrad alma mater Nebraska Wesleyan to recognize outgoing President Fred Ohles. In just 12 short years at the school, Dr. Ohles has made a significant, positive, and long-lasting impact at the university, creating […]
Let’s celebrate International Coaching Week!
Let’s celebrate International Coaching Week (April 29-May 5) by taking time to reflect: Who has served as a coach for YOU? What impact did that coach have in your life or career? I’d love to hear your thoughts below!
“Don’t you get tired of flying?”
“Don’t you get tired of flying?” people ask me. And my honest answer is, “Never!” As a global Executive Coach and international keynote speaker, being on planes is what allows me to do what I love: connecting with audiences and clients across the planet. Just this week, I reached the 2-million-mile mark on United Airlines. […]
It’s no joke – April Fools’ Day marks the anniversary of the company I started 17 years ago!
It’s no joke – April Fools’ Day marks the anniversary of the company I started 17 years ago! When I reflect on the business and how it’s grown, I am incredibly grateful to all of the corporations, clients, and team members who have placed their trust in me all these years. THANK YOU! Looking forward […]
This is what I’ve learned from having coached both male and female executives from 60+ countries, six continents, dozens of cultures, and a variety of religions.
I was honored to open day two as the keynote speaker for last year’s Asia Professional Speakers Convention.
I was honored to open Day Two as the keynote speaker for last year’s Asia Professional Speakers Convention. What a great event! Unfortunately, I cannot attend this year due to travel, but if you are in Asia and interested in the world of professional speaking, this is THE convention to attend. To be held in […]
The power of serendipity
The power of serendipity: While in the U.S. last week for a quick business trip, I stopped off at a mall to buy something. I was reflecting on the state of the planet and said to myself, “What the world really needs right now is better leadership.” I turned the corner and saw this. So […]












